What made you realize that you are an abusive person?
I started to realized I was a abusive person, is when I knew I didn’t care for myself, so how could I care for others. “I asked myself”
What was causing your harassing behavior and how did you realize that was the cause?
I didn’t want to be controlled by others for example my wife, family, co-workers etc.
I created my own path in life by allowing people to control me, so in return I wanted to control people I thought this is what I needed to make myself happy.
This was a cycle that was my life that I created.
My realization can be explained as, I was hurting myself by controlling others.