“How We Became Happy” The True Life Path With Tomoko & Stefan The ultimate answer to every question is Love, Compassion, Empathy, Kindness, and Gratitude, for yourself, for everyone, for everything.

Former Morahara victim · Tomoko Ota who lives in Canada!

A Canadian man who got married internally marries to Moral harassment!
Immediately after international divorce, divorce & single mother life, arrested accommodation and compulsory repatriation, after having remarried with the same man again, accused the DV shelter with his son. Afterwards, after experiencing near-death, he began to walk towards the couple’s rebirth, and former Morahara Canadian husband has always turned into the best understander with a smile.

And now, I do counselling and seminars for people who are suffering from a marital relationship such as spiritual DV, economic DV, verbal abuse etc, which are not normally conversational, and always forced to see the partner’s complexion.
We are offering five step programs online to help Japanese families around the world suffer from Moral harassment DV couple relationships, to help them heal their lives from DV couple relationship.









Looking Through Stained Covered Glasses Within My Life…

What Did I You See When There Was Mud In My Eyes?

Imagine every day wearing glasses covered with pain stains all over your life?

That was my life every day looking at the world not knowing what to do and nowhere to run!

I was looking for answers that I didn’t know, and had “NO” clue where to find the question for my life’s Problems!

I am still looking for all the answers today in my life!!

As I look back at my life, I wish there was someone who really understood my problems that were creating my pains going on in my life at that time when I needed it the most!

My parents didn’t know how to make it all better, I didn’t know so how would they really help me if they were in pain themselves!

I thought my parents didn’t care about my true feeling within my heart!

This was so confusing to my little heart that was grasping upon the slim hope of true happiness in my life as a child!

Now I am in my 40’s and I am still searching for true happiness within my life!

Happiness is starting to come to my life today with every step I take towards understanding who I am!!!

How Did I Make My Wife Sick To Her…

The Moment That I “ABUSED” My Family!!



My life was filled with monents of abuse because, I wanted more attention from there love towards me!!

Why was this my life? 


The past was taking over my future!!


What was my deep thought towards my life?

I just wanted to be loved!!


We all want to be loved “NO MATTER WHAT”!!


What is real love within ourselves?


Looking into the mirror upon our true self and saying “I LOVE YOU”


Merry Christmas To All And A Good Night!!