“How We Became Happy” The True Life Path With Tomoko & Stefan The ultimate answer to every question is Love, Compassion, Empathy, Kindness, and Gratitude, for yourself, for everyone, for everything.

Former Morahara victim · Tomoko Ota who lives in Canada!

A Canadian man who got married internally marries to Moral harassment!
Immediately after international divorce, divorce & single mother life, arrested accommodation and compulsory repatriation, after having remarried with the same man again, accused the DV shelter with his son. Afterwards, after experiencing near-death, he began to walk towards the couple’s rebirth, and former Morahara Canadian husband has always turned into the best understander with a smile.

And now, I do counselling and seminars for people who are suffering from a marital relationship such as spiritual DV, economic DV, verbal abuse etc, which are not normally conversational, and always forced to see the partner’s complexion.
We are offering five step programs online to help Japanese families around the world suffer from Moral harassment DV couple relationships, to help them heal their lives from DV couple relationship.









Are You Living In Fear Every Single Day Of Your Life…

Why Don’t You Just Go Away From Me

Do you want to be left alone when you feel abused?

What does being alone feel like?

What does tomorrow bring when you are feeling alone?

These are questions that I asked to myself as an abuser! Did I really want hurt someone that I loved deep within my heart.

Well I felt alone to be the abuser but most of the time this gave me power over the victim.

Power was what I was seeking in my life.

The feeling that power gave was what I was feeling when I was growing up as my parents where very abusive towards each other.

This what I new to be real in my life as reality.

Later in my life I used this power to hurt the people around me for my benifit as a tool to get what I wanted from others.

Liveing my life in fear was not an option as if the world didn’t understand what I was going through.

No excuse to hurt others, now I understand that after many years of pain and fear in my life.

How can one man change his life to have what he wanted in life now is a true feeling of joy and happiness within his heart now.

Do you know how to be happy in your life?




Why I was a abusive person…

What made you realize that you are an abusive person?

I started to realized I was a abusive person, is when I knew I didn’t care for myself, so how could I care for others. “I asked myself”
What was causing your harassing behavior and how did you realize that was the cause?

I didn’t want to be controlled by others for example my wife, family, co-workers etc.

I created my own path in life by allowing people to control me, so in return I wanted to control people I thought this is what I needed to make myself happy.

This was a cycle that was my life that I created.

My realization can be explained as, I was hurting myself by controlling others.

I need more care for myself to allow my true happiness to become me within my heart and mind.