Does Extreme Discipline Help Shape Our Children Future Or Does It Make Them Afraid Of The Dark???
As a child I loved making fires in our beautiful open fireplace, just staring at the flames as they moved so eloquently between the wood that carried heat towards my face, but on this one day, remembering I was in my parents room playing with matches as they had company in the living room. I started a fire on top of there mattress with a panic in my mind I ran down to the living room and sat quietly on the floor. I remember my parents saying I smell smoke, they ran into there bedroom, I remember my dad pulling the mattress out the window as I watch with a puzzled look on my face like did I just do that. Now time for the truth, my father was so mad at me he pulled his belt from his waist and belted my until I was screaming NO, NO more. The look on his face was so powerful that I thought my time on this planet had just ended.
Did this harm my confidence or make me stronger, well it made me cold and disconnected from my parents.
I truly believe that care and pure love towards your children, is the key to their abundance towards the future that will shape their lives to come…