“How We Became Happy” The True Life Path With Tomoko & Stefan The ultimate answer to every question is Love, Compassion, Empathy, Kindness, and Gratitude, for yourself, for everyone, for everything.

Former Morahara victim · Tomoko Ota who lives in Canada!

A Canadian man who got married internally marries to Moral harassment!
Immediately after international divorce, divorce & single mother life, arrested accommodation and compulsory repatriation, after having remarried with the same man again, accused the DV shelter with his son. Afterwards, after experiencing near-death, he began to walk towards the couple’s rebirth, and former Morahara Canadian husband has always turned into the best understander with a smile.

And now, I do counselling and seminars for people who are suffering from a marital relationship such as spiritual DV, economic DV, verbal abuse etc, which are not normally conversational, and always forced to see the partner’s complexion.
We are offering five step programs online to help Japanese families around the world suffer from Moral harassment DV couple relationships, to help them heal their lives from DV couple relationship.









Am I an abusive father & husband?



I believe that abusive people know that they are abusers in there conscious mind.

When I wanted to hurt someone who I loved, I would say mean words to them or ignore them, when I didn’t get my way.

I am always learning about myself, for example I would imagine how I would act towards people or how mean I was.

I wanted to control my family that means I wanted to control people that where in front of me.
I believe that seeing yourself is the start of knowing who your true self is, that is my belief in my life now.
When you want to find yourself it will find you when you are “NOT” looking for it, that is my belief.

The fact is when you want to find the answer to your abusive behaviour is the key to allowing the answer to be you.

In our subconscious mind we are all kind and a loving people that is my belief.

“We all can think about who we are and how we want to be treated in life”


How does mental abuse effect our children’s future development going into the future.

The truth is when families become dysfunctional

From mental abuse we as a society must understand that our children are effected from the abuse that occurs between parents.
A child will start to develop abusive Behaviour or become unsure of being loved and to give love to others as well as to love themselves.
The truth is we are allowing our children to become bullies and moral harassment human beings.
The truth is we need to understand our pains and fears within ourselves to change human evolution from becoming a society of sad, angry and unhappy people.